Shelby Bupp Crockett

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Birmingham, Michigan, United States
I live in Birmingham, Michigan, with my husband Kyle, our son Nathan and our daughter Evelyn. The blog is named for our late dog Pete, a Rhodesian Ridgeback who died in 2014. Late in 2015, we returned to the US after living five years overseas (Seoul, South Korea and Königstein im Taunus, Germany).

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Toy Story

After the day is done and Natey is upstairs dreaming, Kyle is busy downstairs setting the stage for the next day's toy adventure.

The displays are detailed and intricate, not to mention putting some otherwise forgotten toys back on center stage. The only thing more fun than watching Kyle design and build (or is he playing?!) is watching Nathan discover it all the next morning.

I think my mom is right--Kyle is very much a kid at heart.

:) sbc



Sunday, January 6, 2013

The DMZ

To start our little Christmas "staycation," we toured the Demilitarized Zone (DMZ). I am so glad we went, but it is something I don't care to repeat anytime soon. It's a strange mix of tragedy, posturing, counter-posturing, and denial. Everywhere you look (or are allowed to look), you see two things: CCTV cameras and evidence of the North one-upping the South:

Flagpoles
In the 1980s, the South Korean government built a 323 ft tall flagpole with a 287 lb South Korean flag in Freedom Village. The North Korean government responded by building what was then the tallest flagpole in the world at 525 ft with a 595 lb North Korean flag in Propaganda Village, in what some have called the "flagpole war." The flagpole was superseded as the world's tallest, following the construction of the flagpole in Baku's National Flag Square at 531 ft. Both flagpoles have recently been topped by the Dushanbe Flagpole in Tajikistan, at 541 ft.

If we were told once, we were told a thousand times--do not verbally or non verbally engage any military personnel from the North. No talking. No smiling. No waving. No thumbs up, no thumbs down, no middle finger. Any conduct would likely be captured on camera and used in propaganda that the North creates to show their people. Propaganda Village in North Korea can be seen from the DMZ...only it's not a city at all, it is home to no one and the buildings are only facades with a little light bulb here and there. Kyle summed it up well: the whole place is just spooky.

We started with a briefing at the Joint Security Area (JSA) Camp Bonafis, named for Captain Arthur Bonafis who was killed in the 1976 Ax Murder Incident inside the DMZ (which was, I kid you not, a conflict with the North over a poplar tree).

Next, we went to the conference buildings that span the actual border between North and South, and came face to face with Members of the Korean People's Army (KPA).


Then we ventured onto North Korean soil. These pics are awkward because we were asked to not get too close to the South Korean Military Policemen. (Everyone was pretty jumpy.)
Kyle on North Korean soil
Me on North Korean soil
The South Koeans only reveal half their body to face North, leaving the other half protected by the building. This gives the North less of a target should shots be fired.
Then we went to the Bridge of No Return, where prisioners of the Korean War were released and allowed to choose which country to reside, never to return to the other side. The stories of the people who left their family behind to make a better life in the South with the hope of one day reuniting were sobering.

The tour ended with a visit to the third tunnel of aggression, which is not for the faint of heart (or tall people). Between the helmets we had to wear, the water dripping on us and the constant crouching, a camera just wasn't part of our effects. It was eerie and cramped and weird to keep being reminded that through this tunnel the KPA could launch a full attack on Seoul in 90 minutes.

Entrance to tunnel
It was quite an experience, and We are thankful for freedom!

:) sbc


Saturday, January 5, 2013

At Home for the Holidays

Don't get me wrong, I missed my family, Kyle's family and our friends like crazy over the holidays--a time in our expat adventures that we usually spend in Michigan. I have to admit, though, it was easier than I anticipated. It was fine with me not to have to pack, fly for 14 hours straight with a toddler, unpack or be jet lagged and then turn around and do it all over again. And it was truly a joy to spend 12 straight days together with Kyle on vacation. Since I was lax about posting in the latter half of December, I thought I'd give you a little pictorial round up of our fun...

Christmas packages began to arrive to our delight...

We love to get mail!

 

We decorated the tree...

Christmas all over the globe!
We had the AWC Holiday lunch...
The AWC Board
We took our snacks standing up...
Standing on the coffee table is a new favorite pastime
We woke up at our own pace...
Pre-coffee stare

 

We went for little walks...

Cuties

We made coffee runs...
Coffee!
We woke up Christmas morning...
Let's do this, Santa!
We played with our new stuff...
Puzzles and blocks and animals, oh my!
We played with Daddy's new stuff...
A few sizes too big

We cuddled...
Love
We met new dogs in the neighborhood...
Look up at the doggy!
Dog barking at Natey (and Pete)
We reluctantly posed for pictures....
Nate and Daddy
We took off running...
Here I go!
We weathered a snowstorm...
The beginning of the storm
We played some more...
Checking email :)
And we rang in the new year...
The annual Bupp calendar
Here's to a great 2013!

:) sbc

The Lynn Cookie

This is totally random, but you know how when you get to the end of a batch and that last cookie is void of chocolate chips?

Mmmm, cookies
We call that the Lynn cookie. Lynn is my mom's best friend and basically my second mother--and that's her favorite cookie of the batch. Miss you, Lynn!

Lynn, I would save this for you, but it would be gross by the time I saw you :)
:) sbc

 

Saturday, December 29, 2012

Santa Baby

The week before Christmas, Santa visited Gymboree! But not before the kids dressed for the occasion.

This is the look Natey gave me when I approached with his "Holiday accessories"
Outfit complete!
Sticky snowballs
Santa (wink-wink)

Happy Holidays!
:) sbc