Shelby Bupp Crockett

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Birmingham, Michigan, United States
I live in Birmingham, Michigan, with my husband Kyle, our son Nathan and our daughter Evelyn. The blog is named for our late dog Pete, a Rhodesian Ridgeback who died in 2014. Late in 2015, we returned to the US after living five years overseas (Seoul, South Korea and Königstein im Taunus, Germany).

Saturday, March 31, 2012

Perfect 10

Here we are--the ten month mark!  Can you believe it? (Sorry about missing the 9 month post.  We'll go ahead and blame my health.  Moving on...)

We're looking forward to spring and getting outside.

But until then, Nate stays busy.  

He climbs up one side of Pete.

And down the other.

He contemplates his ten months.

 He hides.

He seeks.

He wakes up happy.

He helps Daddy out with work.


He helps me clean out my purse.

He goes for walks.

He stops for coffee.

And now he's headed straight toward the 11 month marker!
:)sbc

Thursday, March 29, 2012

Shake What Your Momma Gave Ya

When en route from the Seoul Club to home, the name of the game is to keep Nathan awake.
Not awake. FAIL.
Here's just one of many tactics I employ.  Watch out for car/motion sickness...he really knows how to shake my phone.


:)sbc


Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Letter To My Mother

Dear Mom,

Today Nathan paused and looked my way.  I gave him a big smile and he gave me a big smile back.  He wiggled like his whole body was happy just because I smiled at him.  I get that.  There’s no one in the whole wide world that can make me feel—with one smile, one look, one hug, one word, one laugh—like my Mom can.  Like you can.
Mom Mommy Momma Mum
You are the best mom.  I hope you know that.  You are as giving and selfless as you are supportive and dedicated.  You are truly one of the great loves of my life.  I hope that I am half the mother to Nathan that you have been to me.  I hope that Nathan grows up and feels the same way about Kyle and me that I feel about you and Dad.  I am so lucky to have you both in my life, as parents and as friends. 

You make everything better.  You make everything more fun.  You are all the things that make life good:  You are one last time around the lake, the Wednesday night before Thanksgiving, a Pettibone breakfast and all four versus of Silent Night by candlelight.

Happy birthday, Mom.  I love you.  I miss you.
You are my sunshine. You make happy when skies are grey.
Jsbc

Monday, March 19, 2012

The Luck of the Irish

Maybe we needed to cry in our beer (Michigan out in the first round of March Madness?!  There goes my bracket).

Maybe we wanted to celebrate my recovery and good health.

Maybe we wanted to welcome spring.

Maybe it was all three!  Anyway,  Kyle and I went out on the town for St. Patrick's Day. 

We arrived at the Itaewon subway station and were skeptical.  As we made our way through the crazy, drunk and celebrating crowds, Kyle and I exchanged looks of concern.  We agreed we were "too old to wait in line" and would turn back if the bar where our friends were meeting had a line.  

On the streets above it was certainly lively, but not yet crazy.  We had so much fun!

The girls out on St. Patrick's Day
L-R: Leslie, Dani, Jess, Shelby, Liad
Leslie & Dani
Michael & Bronwyn (Michael arrived at 11AM to "save seats.") 
Crocketts
Very fun!

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

It Takes a Village

My dad was supposed to leave yesterday, but his flight was cancelled.  Second time is a charm, hopefully, and at this moment he is about two hours into his flight to San Francisco. 

What's the saying? "It Takes a Village." How true.  Allow me to highlight some very special villagers.

My mom and dad--In their 44 years of marriage, they have never been apart for this long (all told, two weeks and one day).  I am sorry to be the sponsor of their separation,  but I am so thankful that my dad could be here.  It truly lifted the weight on my head and my heart to just know he was on his way.  He provided the help we needed and Kyle and I can't thank you guys enough, and my mom was such a good sport about going it alone and holding down the fort. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
A little light reading
My mother in law Sandy--the whole time my health situation was going on, she was dealing with the death of her father.  Even though she was helping to plan her dad's memorial service, engaged in meetings finalizing his estate, organizing and reviewing his personal effects and closing on the sale of his house, she somehow still made time for us. When we talked  and asked how she was coping, she was more concerned making sure that we were okay.  Most importantly, Sandy was completely understanding that Kyle couldn't make it to the service.  She insisted to Kyle that he was exactly where he should be and encouraged me to focus on getting better.  Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Sandy and Natey
Also, a very special thanks goes out to our friend Jill Munger.  The Mungers and the Bupps go waaaaaay back.  Jill is a high level flight attendant at United Airlines.  She, without hesitation, honored my parents' request to use her companion pass, selected the lightest flight loads for easy travel and emailed her coworkers to make sure they took special care of my dad on his journery.  She did ALL this while recovering from a severe fall that has her at home recovering.

It's because of Jill that my dad was able to fly out to Seoul at--literally--a moment's notice to help with Nathan.  It's because of Jill that Kyle and I could breathe a sigh of relief knowing that help/family was on the way.  It's also because of Jill that my bridesmaids all had hand strung pearls with matching earrings that she personally secured on one of her trips.  It's also because of Jill that my "dream home" is one with two staircases and a big kitchen that has booth seating.  I can still remember drinking hot chocolate at that booth after Christmas caroling.  Jill, you are the best.  Thank you, thank you, thank you.
The send off (round one)
:)sbc





Sunday, March 11, 2012

To Your Health!

Late last year I experienced what I thought was heartburn.  The problem became more frequent through the holiday season and into the new year.  By the beginning of February, I was on a bland diet and not eating past 6PM. But still, the problem escalated.

We visited Dr. Linton and were prescribed meds.  Escalated still.  We went back to the doc and were prescribed more meds.  Soon there were no more stretches of good days followed by a bad night.  I was sick all the time, no matter what we did.   Finally, at the suggestion of Katja (thank god for playgroups where you can lay it all out there with women/friends), we turned to Nathan's pediatrician Dr. Yoo so that she could refer us to someone at her practice that might be willing to actually run a test or two.

She took the case herself, saw me immediately and ordered an endoscopy, chest xray and EKG--all were normal.  We headed into the weekend with new meds and new hope.  No dice. We cancelled the whole weekend and went back to Dr. Yoo on Monday.  Finally, she discovered gall stones and a dilated biliary tree.  The dilation was of utmost concern and she sent me back to Severance that afternoon.  She called and said, "Dr. Linton knows you are coming and is waiting for you. (later I learned from him that she called and gave him a very hard time for missing my diagnosis)."

Dr. Linton, once learning I had not kept any food or water down since the prior Wednesday morning (it was now Monday afternoon), admitted me on the spot to address the dehydration.  Kyle, who had just that morning asked me to mention to my parents that we may need their help caring for Nathan while we tried to figure this out, called my parents and they began making arrangements immediately.

I was too dehydrated and my pancreatic and liver enzymes were too elevated to perform the gall bladder surgery. Tuesday I had an ERCP (endoscopic retrograde cholangio pancreatography) to remove the "rogue" stone and sludge that was compromising my pancreas (and causing the dilation).  It hurt.

Wednesday we hydrated and monitored enzyme levels (and I made the mistake of eating--that did not go well).  My dad arrived in Seoul at 9:30PM.  Kyle and I both breathed a huge sigh of relief.

By Thursday I was ready for surgery (levels had a "fantastic decrease" said my surgeon), but it was a Korean holiday, so the anesthesiologist wasn't available.

Friday we had routine, successful gall bladder surgery.  Saturday, I was released!

The expat community was awesome--from picking up my dad at the airport to delivering homemade meals--we couldn't be more touched by their support.  And special thanks to our families and my mom and dad who literally dropped everything (including an annual trip to the Big Ten Basketball Tournament) to fly out here and help. THANK YOU.

Tomorrow is my birthday and I will, most very certainly, be toasting to my health--and yours.

:) sbc




Saturday, March 10, 2012

Saturday

Soon, I will update you on the trials and tribulations of our late-February-early-March (we are all healthy and fine now--gall bladder, like I said more later).  But for now let me just post this:

I just finished frosting my birthday cake.  The boys are in the other room enjoying a movie.  Nathan is taking his afternoon nap.

"I am happiness right now."

Birthday Cake! 
Kyle & Beepa 
Natey via the monitor (head covered)
 :)sbc